In snow-prone locales, there’s an unwritten rule: if you shovel out a parking spot, it’s yours. When one man’s neighbor disregarded this piece of winter etiquette, he bought himself a chore, a stern talking-to, and scorn. Washington, D.C.-based creator Murlin Deshawn (@themurlindee) posted a TikTok detailing his vengeance on the neighbor who stole his freshly shoveled parking space. As many in the eastern states suffer through consecutive winter storms, the video on snow-day manners has received over 4.5 million views. Every Scoop of Snow Back The caption for Deshawn’s initial video condenses all the drama that follows into a short sentence. "POV: someone stole the space you cleared so you put every scoop of snow back." The clip, filmed mostly at night, shows how Deshawn strategically stacked piles of snow all around his neighbor’s car after he nabbed the spot Deshawn had spent hours clearing. In the final seconds, we catch a few seconds of his heated discussion with the neighbor the next morning. But that brief interaction turned out to be a mere teaser. According to Deshawn’s comments in a follow-up video posted two days later, his neighbor called the police, claiming he was a "public disturbance." So he decided to release the full footage of their exchange, which itself has garnered over 105,000 views. "This Was On Purpose" In the second video, Deshawn is front and center, providing commentary as the recording of his confrontation plays on a green screen behind him. "It’s not my [expletive] spot but when it’s snowing? Look how much snow is here," Deshawn asks his neighbor in the footage. "This is over a foot of snow. When somebody, an adult spends over six hours through the snow day, because we all experienced it… shoveling out their car so that they don’t have to deal with this? And you just spend no time because somebody took your spot." When the neighbor offers a weak apology, claiming "That wasn’t on purpose," Deshawn pushes back hard. "This was on purpose. I spent an hour and a half shoveling every piece of snow and collectively putting it there," he says, later adding, "Don’t forget, somebody may have more time than you do today. Somebody, I had way more time than you do right now." As future Deshawn reacts to the footage playing behind him, he repeatedly takes time to agree with himself, punctuating the arguments with comments like "valid!" and "am I wrong?" The Unwritten Rules Of Parking In snowy climates, the etiquette around shoveled parking spots is serious business—and in some cities, it’s reflected in local ordinances. In Boston, the city officially permits "space savers" for 48 hours after a snow emergency ends. In Chicago, the practice is so ingrained that it has its own name: "dibs." Though not legally enforceable, even former Mayor Richard M. Daley acknowledged it in 2001: "If someone spends all that time digging out a spot, do not drive into that spot." Commenter bobbie jean explained the rule, posting, "Anyone who’s lived with snow on the regular KNOWS ppl dnt play. It takes HOURS to dig out. People have heart attacks shoveling." Mrterrifick summed up how this usually plays out in situations like Deshawn’s, where neighbors are in apartment blocks. "Anyone who lived in apt long enough know we have unassigned assigned parking spots lol." Deshawn responded that it was "a known unknown." Parking Predicament Polarizes Viewers The comment section was polarized between those who understood the code and those who insisted that "public parking" meant anyone could park anywhere. User jess supported Deshawn: "I’m in full support of this bc people are so wicked and inconsiderate." Deshawn replied, "Exactly, it does no damage but teaches a lesson." JEMboys suggested a more devious approach: "I would have poured water on it so it froze so you are WAY nicer than me." User beccaoswald pushed back: "So if it’s not reserved then it isn’t yours. You are shoveling to get your car out for use. It does not entitle you to a parking space." Chelsssss rebutted, "If you for whatever reason, didn’t dig yourself out & just got home, you don’t park in a spot that someone just dug out for an hour. Find somewhere else to park." Is It Legal To Pack Snow Around Someone’s Car? The neighbor who stole the spot called the police on Deshawn, claiming he was a "public disturbance." Commenter jenship8 asked what everyone was thinking: "The police? What law was broken?" The answer is murky, and the rules vary from place to place. While piling snow around a car isn’t explicitly illegal in most jurisdictions as long as no property damage occurs, there may be civil liability. NPR’s recent coverage noted that enforcement of parking rights varies in these situations. Baltimore’s mayor declared he’d personally throw away any space savers he sees, while Boston officially sanctions the practice. Deshawn let on that his neighbor "claimed I was a ‘public disturbance’ (Black)"—indicating that he believed race played a role in the complaint. Mrs. Ackerman pointed out the irony, "Notice he didn’t call to have that other car towed out of his spot, but he called on the Black man to say he was a public disturbance." Deshawn also teased a recording of his interaction with the police, posting, "I miiiiight post the call." Parking Has Consequences Throughout this drama, Deshawn didn’t damage any property or perpetrate violence. He simply returned the snow to its "natural home" around the car of someone who decided to free-ride on his shovel work. As Deshawn put it when his neighbor was staring at the snow piled up around his car, "You [expletive] up, and you can deal with the hour of work." Next time it snows, maybe Deshawn’s neighbor will think twice before parking in a freshly shoveled spot. Motor1 reached out to Deshawn via TikTok direct message. We'll update this if he responds. We want your opinion! What would you like to see on Motor1.com? Take our 3 minute survey. - The Motor1.com Team